Don’t let failed relationships stop you from trying..

A relationship in any sense requires emotions, commitment and a sense of stability. Relationships are not just a human thing, animals have relationships as well. It’s a mental state that gives one a sense of belonging even comfort. It is so that we are not alone, that we feel we are loved and part of something bigger than our own lives.

The sad part about committing ourselves to these relationships is that, half the time they don’t work out the way we dream.. Love is not easy, friendships are not easy, children aren't easy, the mother thing, fathering, being responsible for a pet no relationship is a walk in the park. There is no manual but there is generally an understanding between the two involved, thus making it work for both parties.

When relationships go sour, hearts are broken minds are smashed, and the whole emotional process is negative. But however I believe one sour relationship shouldn't determine all relationships. A friendship that didn’t work doesn’t mean you will never find a good friend, just that if you mind set is negative it won’t work. If one man hurts you, all men must pay? It shouldn’t work that way.. chances it’s all about the benefit of the doubt.

Take time to love yourself, evaluate you and what you have learnt from the failed relationships, I have for example lost friends because of different life styles, but I have gained friends that value me more than anything, friends that I love and feel that they love me to.

Everything begins with the mind, the way we think and see things determine our ability and outcome, no one can control your heart and no one can control your thoughts... mind over matter. We can choose to live in a bitter society that makes everything a general phase. The most popular line is, “arg its ok, these things happen”... we may pretend like being part of someone’s life is not important, but the human mind needs a sense of belonging.

There will always be someone who will appreciate the person you are, someone who finds perfection in your faults, someone who just simply wants to love you..

The end of a relationship, any kind is not the end of all possible relationships.