My life revolves around no man

 I look at women especially young women like me and it frightens me how people are soo comfortable in saying I must marry ritch, I want a man with a flashy car etc and even the worst line I have heard..” what will do without him”.  Hopefully those expectations come after you have set some high bars for yourself!! If that’s the case then girl go and marry rich go and date that man with a flashy car to match your car to match your wealth ehheheheheh…

Have a life plan and dream, your own dream before you dream of moving in with your boyfriend and just being his girlfriend. Who are you without him?? what are you kidding me who are you in real life then because clearly you need a reality check! No one is replaceable even the doosh bag you are in love with but, I in fact well personally am sure of one thing, I wasn’t born to blow up some mans ego, I will compliment and acknowledge when necessary but I will never lower my standards to satisfy or pamper a mans ego.. It is sad how men and what they perceive to be beauty and sexy has damaged the female self esteem, be beautiful and sexy for yourself before you look into doing it for him. I think when you believe you are beautiful you carry yourself in a beautiful manner..and it makes you just that much more sexy and beautiful. Start within and with you, because when he decides or if he does to move onto the next girl your whole idea of beauty will come crashing down, because you did it for him. Im not saying don’t try and impress your lover but don’t forget about what you like and what you want. That way if you do get hurt it wont be 500 times emotionally draining. Not all men are chauvinists and not all men are power hungry. To all the ladies dating sweethearts marry that man!

They may say it’s a mans world that’s ok honey because in my world I know women who are men and women, I know women sitting in board rooms, I have friends that fight better then men and I know women who live in a women’s world.

I am not dismissing the role of a male in my life, geeez I love my dad and I know how to love who ever I chose to date etc but all I am saying is that no man deserves to have my life revolving around their ego.