age gap gap age

I have recently met an older guy and wow such a blow for me he just doesn’t look as old he says and when I talk to him I don’t feel that he is but some times well when he speaks experience or business I do.

I don’t know if Im afraid of dating him or if Im afraid that he might really like me, Iv always been at question with what old men want from young girls, but then again hahaha his not old enough to be my dad not even my mom his way to young, we have an age gap it doesn’t exceed the ten year mark and it does exceed the 5 year gap…. “aaaaah evey you over think things”..Im seeing him and kinda going with the flow gently and slowly but learning to adapt to cards iv never been dealt or played…

Someone said to me that men like younger women for three reasons: it gives them power in terms of being established and that female dependency that men like and some of them are having age issues, he doesn’t want to grow old, so being next to or with a young girl gives him that power of "aaaaah Iv still got game", then lastly there are lots of benefits when men are with younger women, you don’t know his past and you bring fresh excitement to his life soo it could be a phase… bleh bleh bleh.. I don’t like any of those reasons soo it just makes me soo nerv wrecked and knowing me duuuuude im just a shy bobble who speaks out loud. Im taking my time though trying to sass out my guy, he doesn’t speak to me in a condescending manner he takes intrest in what I say and he sure hell doesn’t look old J.

• I have also been told that the disadvantages of being with an older guy might be his older ex’s, they belittle you and look down on you calling you a man stealer or maybe that chick has daddy issues..hahahah which I find funny I guess that doesn’t apply to me because he is younger than my dads first born..I don’t know though how to handle maybe an older ex looking down on me..bahahahhaha me ill shy away from that situation and walk away like I never heard anything… then moving right along to the next diss on the older sugar..bahahaha I wonder if him being established will affect me, I doubt though because I am always on my own mission and I take note and intrest in what interests the people around me so I would hope that his achievements will stay that and not become trophies in his head, if soo nah his way too materialistic for a journalist like me. His age and achievements should never interpret into him being superior to me, who knows where ill be in the next 6 months not even year..

(whispers) I am told that older men are less active and I like to play, apparently there will be no pillow fights and other energy consuming things…hmmmm now that might be a deal breaker for me, I would like to take random drives over the weekends, weekends away, I like sport and I don’t see why we cant watch and play our own..im generally a very understanding person but id like to be understood…awuuuuu then the lastests big one…As you age, you change . will my development and achievements also maturity fade his interest in me or visa versa…Some may say I over think things but hey these are real life matters man.