There is a big difference between a sex video, porn movie and soft porn..

The moment young people realise there is nothing cool about being in a sex video, the better. Recently a sex video of a young girl broke out; the teenagers are said to be from east London. Sadly in most cases when these video’s break out they become viral, they spread literally like a virus. That is how society is, there is nothing interesting to watch about a child having sex, but the shock and need to know makes it the latest “trend”.

In most cases when a video breaks into the social sights the girl dies. It could be the shame or shock one can never know. But it is sad, as wrong or dirty the situation may be losing a life is depressing.

Women and SEX have always been associated with negativity; being a slut, whore, cheap, weak etc the list goes on and on. It is never the girl who gets all the credit like; she is totally hot, aaah no “her body is great” or no wait for it, “she beautiful” or it was harmless fun. This is why we need to reach out and speak about these things. Young girls need not feel under pressure for sex or anything in that manner. 

We are not going to play the blame game and say she had been drugged or whatever the case may have been, because not every young girl in a sex video has been drugged or will be drugged.

They just need to learn that if you are going to be sexually active then simply respect what you do and do it with someone who respects you. Be with someone who knows how to protect you and themselves, someone who cares enough to keep it personal.

DO NOT TAKE PART OR INTEREST IN THINGS YOU CANT HANDLE!!!!

There is NOTHING HOT about stupid sex tapes in uniform you are NOT a porn star you should be growing into a young lady, we all make mistakes and we are judged at some stage in life. But having it recorded is like having a prison sentence; people never forget a bad movie.

This is isn't something we can be taught in the life orientation class, or at home this is stemmed by some kind of pressure behavior.  No parent can prepare you to say NO to a video..really, it’s hard for them to even sit you down for the sex talk. We need to be educated and aware of these things. Women need to empower and educate little girls, something must be done SOON. We can’t lose mothers of tomorrow to silly “today” mistakes.