Things that I have learnt from all the relationships in my life is that nothing is certain, and never take anything for granted.
Its simple things that ruin all relationships and these are things we hear all the time, wait until it happens to you. The day you sit and realise wow this person has just taken from me and seldom given back. Its a weakness we all have, its something that we all might once in the comfort zone suffer from. Its in the back of your mind; you know your mother will take care of you when you sick and you know your best friend will take your side when there is an argument.. simple things like these make or break a relationship.
Something very important that I have taken notice of is that never in any of your relationships have fun at the expense of some one elses tears don't take things for granted and expect to be normal, life may be good to you but once those people are tired of understanding and forgiving things go haywire...simply because you cant abuse their life or love anymore.
People may complain and sulk then you know they still care but once its silent and you feel you doing your own things....no your not on top of the world you are facing the world alone and its no good feeling. We may pretend like we want to be left alone or we can do it all alone but we cant, we need love, we need friends and we need lovers.
Every thing around you is how you do things and how those people react to you., if you know your best friend likes brown sugar don't give them white sugar, if you know your mom likes tea don't serve her coffee...
Watch out whom you hurt and how far you push the limits with people you "think" you love..
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