Please dont friend zone me if you like me

There is something I have learnt now that I'm in the field with the  single ladies..

Men that take their time, Men that allow themselves into the friend zones.. and those with game and no game.. Basically its all like a board game WEIRD

Why on earth do you take your time to make a move, not the move but a move..like njee why are we playing games hahah or have I been so out of this, that I really have the wrong memo. If you like a lady and you think that it might bloom into something please do not allow yourself into the friendship zone, by keeping quiet or pretending to be her friend.. This is only going to run into confusion and stress.. You don't want to be her friend forever then please do not befriend her, tell her, flirt or whatever guys do.. (thinking about that flirting tip, hahahaah that stuff is funny esp when you don't know how) I now understand why I and to dig for friends and Ali the stuff I thought was stupid actually isn't at all, however i still stuck at the signals and hope I have not been giving out the wrong signs.

Being friends with a guy for months and even years is really fun, simply because friendship wise guys are generally better at it than women. They laugh at you when you look stupid and always look out for you and are amazing with fights..Now why are w ruining something so sweet for something sexy??? or something that might seem sexy and then it dies.. REALLY please do not turn around to fall in love with me after we have been friends. I just don't understand it,  Maybe some girls out there are not like me but me when I'm your friend I will tell you about the other guys I have liked and turn to the best male friend for male advise.. so if you have been in love with me, have you been objective? such questions just make my head spinning hoola hoops..

I'm fairly fresh and yet again stale when it comes to field activities I shall call it, but being a woman is confusing let alone when men are involved.. lets not play games lets be straight. let me know from point "A" that look, we can do the friendship thing but I want you I like you etc but don't let me walk around in my bra and share things with you in the friend zone spirit..knowing you want to jump that street..its not fair because you have an upper hand.

I don't want to fall in love with my friend I want to build a solid friendship with my lover..