Your alone

The youth have the tendency of always finding someone to blame, it starts by blaming the teacher for failing the grade, then its the lecturer for failing the module, then its your skin colour, then its your sex, then its where you come from or its the other persons popularity... its always going to be something if you not going to get up and take a stand..

It starts with a goal; something simple and a goal with a time line. When I first did my learners license I told myself I will not do it again and i will get my drivers by age twenty one....ok ok i did not get it at twenty one but hey I'm still twenty one and have been a legal driver for six months now and you know what it feels damn good to have achieved it!

The people we let in our lives play a huge role in how we will live our lives their influences and opinions are soon to cross our mind and the way we think. We are born into families and their problems so we do not need to walk the walk of shame and find more problems by blaming those problems you where born into. I come from a divorced home and i could have taken that and blamed the whole world because my parents are divorced etc but naah i got over it when my first relationship went hay wire and i wrote in my diary no man loves me... WHAT I MUST HAVE BEEN MAD I NOW HAVE A GREAT MAN :)
Life is generally unplanned and things tend to happen but it is how we choose to handle these things that matter, they always say there is a lesson to every thing...uhmmm maybe not but hey it happened move on. I feel pity for the girls that think the key to riches is an old man with money what girl get some drive. Men are just as weak as women when it comes to some things even weaker at others. I do not go around looking for a father figure because my dad left my mom hahahah no and i don't think my boyfriend is cheating all the time cos that's how it ended for my parents. Its not fair yes  bad things happen to people and its sad but don't let the occurrence of one bad incident ruin your whole life.

Don't sleep your integrity away because you want to fit in the crowd, don't drink you liver out because it seems cool or it takes the problem away for five minutes... no stand up to the problem it only makes you a stronger and easier person to love.

WE WERE ALL DESTINED TO BE LOVED AND HAPPY<FIND THAT HAPPINESS WITHIN BEFORE TO BUY IT WITH YOUR SOUL!